The Best Wedding Venues in Cary, NC

The Best Wedding Venues in Cary, NC

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13 Wedding Venues in Cary, NC

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Carnes Lake Banquet Hall 

5.0

  • Up to 250 guests
  • Raw space
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $1,995

Carnes Lake is an 1800 square foot hall that will be perfect for your wedding and/or reception. It's set on a private, fenced and gated, property outside Lancaster SC at 3548 N Rocky River Rd. The 6 acre lakefront venue will make you smile and breathe a little easier as soon as you arrive. The hall will accommodate around 50 - 75 people inside and room to double that with outdoor seating. Both inside and outside areas have a beautiful lakefront view. Another great feature is ample parking for all you guests. Whether you're in Lancaster, Charlotte, Waxhaw, Monroe or Pageland, Carnes Lake Banquet Hall is perfect.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Flexible event spaces
  • Offers full flexibility in setup and decor
  • Space for a large guest list

Venue considerations

  • No on-site bridal suite
  • Does not have a dance floor
  • Not wheelchair accessible
Carnes Lake Banquet Hall was the perfect venue for our wedding. From the start, communication with Fran was great - she always responded quickly to our questions and requests. The space itself was beautiful, both inside and out, creating a lovely backdrop to celebrate our special day with the exact theme we we’re looking for. As a smaller group, Carnes Lake provided an intimate and cozy setting that really allowed us to enjoy the company of our closest friends and family. We are so grateful to the entire team at Carnes Lake for helping make our wedding day truly perfect.
Paige A., 2 months ago
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Courtyard Raleigh/Cary Parkside Town Commons 

5.0

Cary, NC
  • Up to 180 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $7,000

Surrounded by over 50 shopping, dining and entertainment venues, Courtyard Raleigh Cary/Parkside Town Commons offers unparalleled access to many business and leisure destinations. Easily access Research Triangle Park, the USA Baseball Complex and Raleigh-Durham International Airport. Rest easy in our spacious hotel rooms and suites, complete with the thoughtful amenities you desire.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Flexible event spaces
  • Has a dance floor for celebration
  • Designed for grand celebrations

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
  • On-site parking not available
We recently hosted our son’s engagement ceremony on March 1, 2025, at the Courtyard Raleigh Cary/Parkside Town Commons hotel in Cary, NC. We had a truly wonderful experience at the hotel. From the very beginning, the service was exceptional. Jon Mathews, the Catering Sales Manager was not only professional and responsive but also incredibly thoughtful and detail-oriented. Jon went above and beyond to ensure every aspect of our event was smooth, stress-free, and memorable. His support made the planning process seamless and enjoyable. The venue itself was immaculate and beautifully suited for our celebration. The location was convenient for our out-of-town guests, and the accommodations were clean, modern, and comfortable. Every staff member we interacted with was courteous and helpful, making our entire stay a pleasure. We are so grateful to Jon and the Courtyard team for helping create a joyful and elegant atmosphere for such a meaningful occasion in our lives. Highly recommended for any family event, celebration, or gathering, You will be in excellent hands!
Chintamani S., 7 months ago
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The Upchurch 

5.0

Cary, NC
  • Up to 225 guests
  • Select services
  • Starts at $5,500

Combining historic charm with modern amenities, The Upchurch offers a versatile space for weddings. The venue features elegant interiors and beautiful outdoor spaces, providing a sophisticated backdrop for any celebration. Personalized service ensures a unique and unforgettable wedding.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Allows pets
  • Wheelchair accessible
  • Provides a dedicated team on-site

Venue considerations

  • No in-house catering options
  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • Best for events with big guest lists
Awarded Best of Zola
The Upchurch was the perfect venue for our November wedding! Hannah was amazing to work with, she provided vendor recommendations, made the planning process so easy, and thanks to her our wedding day ran so smoothly! We received so many compliments from our guests about the beautiful venue. If you are looking for a venue and team that really cares about your experience and will make the planning process easy, definitely consider The Upchurch.
Chloe, a year ago
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The Umstead Hotel and Spa 

5.0

Cary, NC
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $21,500

Be welcomed into the only Forbes Five-Star Hotel in North Carolina and experience breathtaking views, stunning, art-filled interiors, exquisite dining and indulgent spa treatments in a setting where art, nature and wellness beautifully come together. As one of the most romantic and tranquil wedding venues near Raleigh, North Carolina, The Umstead Hotel and Spa features elegantly appointed function space, luxury suites and gourmet catering to ensure a wedding celebration and honeymoon to remember. Whether you're planning an intimate gathering or an extravagant wedding, our wooded grounds, lakeside terrace and elegant lawn are yours to fill with guests and loved ones for any social event.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Pets can join the celebration
  • Caters to out-of-town guests
  • Flexible event spaces

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
  • Additional event staff required
I've worked with The Umstead's wedding & events team for over eight years, and they truly are the gold standard of excellence in the Triangle area. They are courteous, communicative, kind, professional, and well-versed in every aspect of a high-level wedding or event. Kayla and Haley are so kind and prompt in their communication, so collaborative in their approach to event planning, and so dedicated to the success of each event they host. I am always thrilled when our teams get to work together, because from the first client introduction through the fast-paced day of setup, execution and wrap-up, The Umstead's team is truly a joy to know and work with.
Curated Events, 2 years ago
The Oaks at Salem 

5.0

Apex, NC
  • Up to 300 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor & indoor

The Oaks at Salem has everything you are looking for! As the premier venue for weddings, receptions, rehearsal dinners, and other Triangle functions, the property provides numerous options for both outdoor and indoor entertaining! ​ Combining centuries-old charm with the best of modern conveniences, the setting is designed to capitalize on the views from every vantage point. Situated on over eleven pastoral acres with mature hardwoods and beautiful landscaping, The Oaks at Salem provides a plethora of photo opportunities beyond your imagination. The main level of the house offers a cozy fireplace and over one thousand square feet of veranda overlooking our ceremony wall, serene, one-acre pond, and newly acquired rustic barn.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Promotes a party atmosphere
  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • Handles all cleanup logistics

Venue considerations

  • No venue-provided food services
  • No free parking
  • Best for events with big guest lists
The Oaks was everything I dreamed of and provided the absolute best back drop for our pictures. The house is gorgeous and plenty spacious! We are thrilled that’s where we got to say and celebrate our I Do’s!
Stephanie K., 2 years ago
Hyatt House RDU 

5.0

Morrisville, NC
  • Up to 80 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $2,000

Hyatt House Raleigh Durham Airport hotel is beautifully located in the heart of Perimeter Park. It’s the perfect location to plan your special event and out of town accommodations. While in town, enjoy our complimentary shuttle service offering short drives to all points of the triangle and Raleigh Durham Airport. We make planning easy with our flexible F&B packages and convenient on-site amenities.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Full catering menu to choose from
  • Provides setup and cleanup
  • Provides lighting and sound

Venue considerations

  • Dance floor not included
  • Additional event staff required
My wedding was this past December, and I had been looking for a hotel to accommodate my family and friends. The Hyatt House in Morrisville was the perfect spot. The staff was extremely helpful and friendly and even handed out gift bags to our guests. The event coordinator, Brett, is absolutely fantastic to work with. He is not only professional, but extremely kind and responsive. I am a big fan of Hyatt in general, but this experience just really solidified everything about Hyatt I already like. The hotel lobby area/bar was the perfect spot for the family to informally gather during the wedding weekend and the variety in breakfast day to day was also an added bonus. If you area looking for a spot to host your family and friends then definitely consider this hotel!
Olympio + B., 2 years ago
Jiddi Space & Courtyard 

5.0

Raleigh, NC
  • Up to 150 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $3,500

The Jiddi Space & Courtyard, part of Raleigh's Helig-Levine Complex, comprises four historic buildings dating back to the late 1800s. Originally a furniture and dry goods store, the space evolved into a stockroom for Heilig-Levine Furniture Store. Restored by Empire Properties in 2005, it now serves as an event venue managed by neighboring restaurants Sitti and Gravy. Hosting parties, weddings, and events, it retains its historic charm with market lights and a rich heritage spanning nearly 150 years.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Combines timeless elegance with history
  • Provides setup and cleanup
  • Provides lighting and sound

Venue considerations

  • No free parking
  • Additional event staff required
  • No on-site guest accommodations
Jiddi Space & Courtyard was an excellent choice for our wedding reception. Their communication throughout the planning process was responsive, pleasant, and professional. The ambiance of their venue was perfect for our wedding, with a beautiful space that allowed for a wonderful evening of celebration and dancing with our family and friends. The Jiddi team went above and beyond to make our special day truly magical, from the beginning of the planning stages to the end of the evening. The food was also delicious, and we would highly recommend Jiddi Space & Courtyard to others looking for a special event venue.
Pattie B., a year ago
The Grove at City Market 

5.0

Raleigh, NC
  • Up to 110 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $15,000

The Grove at City Market is an intimate wedding venue located in Raleigh, NC. This unique venue offers a charming atmosphere with rustic decor and contemporary elements throughout. The Grove at City Market offers a range of chic indoor and outdoor spots for you to host your ceremony, including a brick garden patio area in the heart of City Market's cobblestone streets and a historic sheltered space featuring an Edison bulb chandelier. They offer cocktail hour bars complete with flaming fire pits and comfortable lounge areas where you can host a casual reception with your friends and family. The Grove at City Market can cater to a range of events, such as engagement parties, rehearsal dinners, elopements, weddings, and more. They offer a selection of comprehensive packages, including all the services you may need to pull off your dream event, from delectable catering and refreshing beverages to staffing and rentals.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Allows pets
  • Offers a sense of luxury
  • Provides catering services

Venue considerations

  • Couple must handle cleanup and setup
  • On-site parking not available
  • Not wheelchair accessible
We work with the Market Hall team often as planners and we always have a great experience! The staff are so knowledgeable on all things catering, weddings, and events and we know our clients are in great hands if they book The Grove or Market Hall. We love that The Grove has a unique look and the space is so modern! If you are looking for a chic, modern, industrial space with amazing food then The Grove is for you!
Something Fabulous, 3 years ago
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Lake Johnson Park 
Raleigh, NC
  • Up to 50 guests
  • Raw space
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $1,000

Escape to the natural beauty of Lake Johnson Park, a serene and picturesque setting for your wedding events. With 150 acres of shimmering lake and a variety of greenway trails, our park offers a tranquil backdrop for any celebration. We provide a range of versatile indoor and outdoor venues, from a spacious waterfront conference room with panoramic views to covered outdoor decks and picnic shelters. Whether you envision a lively rehearsal dinner or a serene ceremony by the water, Lake Johnson Park is the perfect location to create a beautiful and memorable day.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Offers full flexibility in setup and decor
  • Has an intimate feel for a small guest list
  • Both indoor and outdoor options

Venue considerations

  • Small venue, not ideal for a large guest lists
  • Couple must handle cleanup and setup
  • On-site parking not available
The StateView Hotel 
Raleigh, NC
  • Up to 250 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor

All you need for the perfect wedding day is to look into the eyes of your spouse-to-be and promise them forever love – with a gorgeous backdrop, impressive food and a charming reception space, artfully decorated with your specific tastes in mind. That’s exactly what you’ll find here at the StateView Hotel in Raleigh, NC. Imagine saying “I do” while standing in the sunshine on our sweeping green lawn with the glistening waters of Lake Raleigh in the background. After the ceremony, retreat to our beautiful ballroom, completely customized for you and your guests. Now it’s time to eat, drink and be merry – you’ve just tied the knot with the love of your life!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a glamorous vibe
  • Provides catering services
  • Caters to out-of-town guests

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
  • Does not allow pets
  • Dance floor not included
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Lake Wheeler Park 
Raleigh, NC
  • Up to 75 guests
  • Raw space
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $500

Exchange vows surrounded by the serene beauty of the outdoors at Lake Wheeler Park. With 650 acres of tranquil lake and 150 acres of parkland, this scenic venue offers a peaceful escape just outside of Raleigh. Whether you're planning a grand reception or an intimate lakeside ceremony, the natural beauty of the park provides a stunning backdrop for your special day. Our versatile event spaces and scenic outdoor locations ensure a celebration that feels both unique and unforgettable.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • Picturesque garden backdrop
  • Allows pets

Venue considerations

  • Dance floor not included
  • Requires outside catering services
  • Better for more intimiate events
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Borden Building 
Raleigh, NC
  • Up to 80 guests
  • Raw space
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $1,000

Find a charming and versatile setting for your special day at the Borden Building and Fred Fletcher Amphitheater. Located within the beautiful Fred Fletcher Park, our venue provides both indoor and outdoor spaces that can be transformed to fit your vision. With its historic charm and surrounding natural beauty, this site is ideal for weddings, receptions, and a variety of other events. Enjoy the freedom of a non-staffed facility, allowing you to bring your dream wedding to life in a way that is uniquely yours.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Classic, vintage atmosphere
  • Has a relaxed and casual vibe
  • Flexible event spaces

Venue considerations

  • No all-inclusive dining options
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No on-site guest accommodations

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About wedding venues in Cary, NC

Why is Cary Perfect for Your Wedding Day?

Cary boasts an impressive variety of wedding venues from historic mansions like The Matthews House to modern spaces like Chatham Station. Its central location in North Carolina's Triangle region gives your guests easy access to Raleigh-Durham International Airport. You'll appreciate the financial advantage too; venues here typically account for just 16% of your total wedding budget compared to the national average of 25%. November has emerged as the most popular month for venue inquiries and most couples book their dream location about 14 months before the big day.

What Types of Wedding Venues Can You Find in Cary?

Cary's venue selection offers something special for every couple's vision. The Matthews House features a stunning Grand Ballroom complemented by manicured gardens and a spacious terrace, plus you'll get concierge service and an onsite wedding coordinator to help with planning. Chatham Station gives you 4,500 square feet of open space filled with natural light in historic downtown; perfect for celebrations up to 200 guests. If luxury is what you're after, The Umstead Hotel and Spa delivers with art-filled interiors and beautiful lakeside terraces set against wooded grounds. Prestonwood Country Club offers elegant ballrooms with sweeping golf course views while The Mayton combines 44 comfortable guestrooms with direct terrace access to Downtown Cary Park.

How Much Do Cary Wedding Venues Cost?

Venues in Cary cost about $6,805 on average which represents roughly 16% of your total wedding expenses. You'll find this quite reasonable compared to the national benchmark of $6,500-$12,000 that typically eats up 25% of total wedding costs. Total wedding budgets in Cary by guest count:

  • 50 guests: $18,931
  • 100 guests: $31,411
  • 150 guests: $43,146
  • 200 guests: $53,638
  • 250 guests: $64,131
  • 300 guests: $74,623

Which Wedding Services in Cary Cost the Most?

ServiceAverage CostPercentage of Total Budget
Venue$6,80516%
Catering$5,44413%
Florists$5,32412%
Bar Services$4,35510%
Photographers$4,0959%
Planners$3,8639%
Videographers$3,6188%
Bands/DJs$1,3343%
Cakes/Desserts$9212%
Hair & Makeup$6101%

When Should You Book Your Cary Wedding Venue?

Most couples in Cary secure their venues about 14 months (403 days) before their wedding date. November tops the charts as the most popular month for venue inquiries. If you're dreaming of a spring or fall wedding; especially a Saturday celebration at one of the more sought-after venues; you'll want to book early. These prime dates fill up quickly so getting ahead of the game will give you more options to choose from.

Where Can You Find Fully Accessible Wedding Venues in Cary?

The Matthews House offers excellent wheelchair accessibility with their attentive concierge service ready to accommodate various needs. You'll find Chatham Station particularly welcoming with its open 4,500-square-foot floor plan designed for easy navigation throughout its historic downtown location. The Mayton connects you directly to Downtown Cary Park through terrace access and features comprehensive amenities that meet accessibility standards so all your guests can fully participate in your celebration.

Which Cary Venues Offer Outstanding Food Quality?

The Umstead Hotel & Spa serves up sophisticated gourmet catering that's earned recognition for culinary excellence; your foodie guests will be impressed. The Palm Venue & Catering brings over 20 years of restaurant experience to their freshly renovated 2023 space with menus you can customize to your taste. Prestonwood Country Club delivers upscale dining with the bonus of championship golf course views that create a memorable backdrop for your reception meal.

How Can Remote Guests Participate in Cary Weddings?

The Matthews House excels at including remote participants thanks to their dedicated onsite coordinator who can help you create interactive options beyond basic streaming. You'll appreciate their professional event direction to facilitate engaging experiences for virtual guests throughout their versatile spaces. This means your loved ones who can't attend in person can still feel connected to your special day regardless of where they're located.

Why is Cary Perfect for Your Wedding Day?

Cary boasts an impressive variety of wedding venues from historic mansions like The Matthews House to modern spaces like Chatham Station. Its central location in North Carolina's Triangle region gives your guests easy access to Raleigh-Durham International Airport. You'll appreciate the financial advantage too; venues here typically account for just 16% of your total wedding budget compared to the national average of 25%. November has emerged as the most popular month for venue inquiries and most couples book their dream location about 14 months before the big day.

What Types of Wedding Venues Can You Find in Cary?

Cary's venue selection offers something special for every couple's vision. The Matthews House features a stunning Grand Ballroom complemented by manicured gardens and a spacious terrace, plus you'll get concierge service and an onsite wedding coordinator to help with planning. Chatham Station gives you 4,500 square feet of open space filled with natural light in historic downtown; perfect for celebrations up to 200 guests. If luxury is what you're after, The Umstead Hotel and Spa delivers with art-filled interiors and beautiful lakeside terraces set against wooded grounds. Prestonwood Country Club offers elegant ballrooms with sweeping golf course views while The Mayton combines 44 comfortable guestrooms with direct terrace access to Downtown Cary Park.

How Much Do Cary Wedding Venues Cost?

Venues in Cary cost about $6,805 on average which represents roughly 16% of your total wedding expenses. You'll find this quite reasonable compared to the national benchmark of $6,500-$12,000 that typically eats up 25% of total wedding costs. Total wedding budgets in Cary by guest count:

  • 50 guests: $18,931
  • 100 guests: $31,411
  • 150 guests: $43,146
  • 200 guests: $53,638
  • 250 guests: $64,131
  • 300 guests: $74,623

Which Wedding Services in Cary Cost the Most?

ServiceAverage CostPercentage of Total Budget
Venue$6,80516%
Catering$5,44413%
Florists$5,32412%
Bar Services$4,35510%
Photographers$4,0959%
Planners$3,8639%
Videographers$3,6188%
Bands/DJs$1,3343%
Cakes/Desserts$9212%
Hair & Makeup$6101%

When Should You Book Your Cary Wedding Venue?

Most couples in Cary secure their venues about 14 months (403 days) before their wedding date. November tops the charts as the most popular month for venue inquiries. If you're dreaming of a spring or fall wedding; especially a Saturday celebration at one of the more sought-after venues; you'll want to book early. These prime dates fill up quickly so getting ahead of the game will give you more options to choose from.

Where Can You Find Fully Accessible Wedding Venues in Cary?

The Matthews House offers excellent wheelchair accessibility with their attentive concierge service ready to accommodate various needs. You'll find Chatham Station particularly welcoming with its open 4,500-square-foot floor plan designed for easy navigation throughout its historic downtown location. The Mayton connects you directly to Downtown Cary Park through terrace access and features comprehensive amenities that meet accessibility standards so all your guests can fully participate in your celebration.

Which Cary Venues Offer Outstanding Food Quality?

The Umstead Hotel & Spa serves up sophisticated gourmet catering that's earned recognition for culinary excellence; your foodie guests will be impressed. The Palm Venue & Catering brings over 20 years of restaurant experience to their freshly renovated 2023 space with menus you can customize to your taste. Prestonwood Country Club delivers upscale dining with the bonus of championship golf course views that create a memorable backdrop for your reception meal.

How Can Remote Guests Participate in Cary Weddings?

The Matthews House excels at including remote participants thanks to their dedicated onsite coordinator who can help you create interactive options beyond basic streaming. You'll appreciate their professional event direction to facilitate engaging experiences for virtual guests throughout their versatile spaces. This means your loved ones who can't attend in person can still feel connected to your special day regardless of where they're located.

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