Just being there with us is enough. We consider your attendance on our wedding day enough of a gift. We realize just being with us that day involves considerable expense (flights, hotels, etc.) and inconvenience (travel, a missed day of work, etc.). Also, we're in our 30s -- we've already got nice silverware and china and we don't really need more stuff. For those who would like to give: We find more joy in experiences than things. As such, we're planning a honeymoon to some place so exotic that we likely won't visit it again anytime soon. The current shortlist includes Bali, South Africa, and Tahiti. If you'd like to give, a small contribution to our Honeymoon fund would be a wonderful gesture, as you'd literally be participating in our dream of seeing the world. If you'd like to give but find Honeyfunds tacky, we've also selected a small handful of items for our home that we've bookmarked for ourselves for future purchase.