We know it’s not traditional and it’s not the way it’s done, but instead of a wedding list, we’d like a bit of sun. Please do not think of us as rude, and please do not take offense. We surely do not want to upset you, that is not what we want. Considering that this is not our first marriage, and we’ve already got our plates, our pots and our pans, and our plans have all been made. We would appreciate your help though to send us on our way, a contribution to our Wedding-moon in a land quite far away.