Welcome! As you can see, most gifts are group gifts. We realize things are expensive and would never expect one person to spend more than another. This site is designed for us to keep everything we would want or need in one place, ship the gifts when we are ready for them to be sent to us so we don't have a living full of all of your lovely presents while still trying to be able to function during my finals and Ben's desire to work two jobs. The group gifting is an AMAZING idea. We realize that weddings are expensive and would never expect you to pay to fly here, pay to stay here, and then pay for a pricey gift. Get together with a friend and go in halfsies. It won't hurt our feelings!